I’m the survivor. I make the rules. So don’t you fucking dare use the word ‘rapey’ around me. Find another word. Use a few words if you have to. It’s so incredibly minimizing and dismissive, of my experience and the huge violent problem of rape. If you’re going to talk about rape, you need to do it seriously and in a way that doesn’t make survivors feel shitty. I don’t care if I’m taking away your slang. DONT SAY IT.